{"id":7536,"date":"2015-09-23T09:37:22","date_gmt":"2015-09-23T16:37:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogadmin.plantlust.com\/blog\/?p=7536"},"modified":"2024-01-24T06:25:21","modified_gmt":"2024-01-24T14:25:21","slug":"its-not-you-its-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/plantlust.com\/blog\/gardens\/its-not-you-its-me\/","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s not you, it&#8217;s me&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Our love affair is over.<br \/>\nIt started out intense, as these things do \u2013 pure powerful lust.<!--more--><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145846\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7538\" src=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145846\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-2.jpg\" alt=\"Clematis tibetana var. vernayi 2\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145846\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-2.jpg 768w, https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145846\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-2-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nThere was that brief moment I thought we\u2019d made a connection.<br \/>\nOnly to have another steal you \u2013 right before my eyes.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145843\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-masses-o-buds.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7548\" src=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145843\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-masses-o-buds.jpg\" alt=\"Clematis tibetana var. vernayi masses o buds\" width=\"1024\" height=\"807\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145843\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-masses-o-buds.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145843\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-masses-o-buds-300x236.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Then finally it happened, you were mine and it was just as good as I thought it would be.<br \/>\nOur years together have been wonderful, but now I find our relationship has cooled.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145840\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-twining.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7551\" src=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145840\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-twining.jpg\" alt=\"Clematis tibetana var. vernayi twining\" width=\"796\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145840\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-twining.jpg 796w, https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145840\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-twining-233x300.jpg 233w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 796px) 100vw, 796px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s just no sizzle. The passion is gone, I\u2019m lusting for another.<br \/>\nBut really, it\u2019s not you\u00a0\u2013\u00a0it\u2019s me&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And my small garden!<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145842\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-overpowers-Schef.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7549\" src=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145842\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-overpowers-Schef.jpg\" alt=\"Clematis tibetana var. vernayi overpowers Schef\" width=\"857\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145842\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-overpowers-Schef.jpg 857w, https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145842\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-overpowers-Schef-251x300.jpg 251w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 857px) 100vw, 857px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I planted\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/plantlust.com\/plants\/6466\/clematis-tibetana-var-vernayi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Clematis tibetana var. vernayi<\/a>\u00a0to grow across a couple of metal-grid trellis to help block the view of our\u00a0patio.\u00a0Creating a screen which allows the visitor to slowly discover the garden, rather than having the entire thing visible when you enter. It&#8217;s done that&#8230;perhaps too successfully.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145844\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-crammit-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7546\" src=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145844\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-crammit-2.jpg\" alt=\"Clematis tibetana var. vernayi crammit 2\" width=\"1024\" height=\"668\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145844\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-crammit-2.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145844\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-crammit-2-300x195.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It wants to eat my\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/plantlust.com\/plants\/6780\/schefflera-delavayi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Schefflera delavayi<\/a>, which is not acceptable behavior. It&#8217;s time for me to find another vine. One not as vigorous.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145845\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-crammit-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7545\" src=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145845\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-crammit-1.jpg\" alt=\"Clematis tibetana var. vernayi crammit 1\" width=\"840\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145845\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-crammit-1.jpg 840w, https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145845\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-crammit-1-246x300.jpg 246w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 840px) 100vw, 840px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And just for the record I do still love this Clematis, in fact I cheered <a href=\"https:\/\/plantlust.com\/blog\/author\/patricia\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Patricia<\/a>&#8216;s purchase just a couple of weeks ago at the <a href=\"https:\/\/cistus.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Cistus Nursery<\/a> booth during our fall <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hardyplantsociety.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Hardy Plant Society of Oregon<\/a> plant sale. She&#8217;s got the room to let it spread it&#8217;s wings.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145841\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-seed-head.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7550\" src=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145841\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-seed-head.jpg\" alt=\"Clematis tibetana var. vernayi seed head\" width=\"1018\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145841\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-seed-head.jpg 1018w, https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145841\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-seed-head-225x225.jpg 225w, https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145841\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-seed-head-298x300.jpg 298w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1018px) 100vw, 1018px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I just have a bad case of plant lust and want to grow all the cool plants. Even if I don&#8217;t have room for them.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145844\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-flower-close-up.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-7547\" src=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145844\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-flower-close-up.jpg\" alt=\"Clematis tibetana var. vernayi flower close up\" width=\"1024\" height=\"815\" srcset=\"https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145844\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-flower-close-up.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/d17vsf20mehj1i.cloudfront.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/01145844\/Clematis-tibetana-var.-vernayi-flower-close-up-300x238.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>To be continued&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Our love affair is over. It started out intense, as these things do \u2013 pure powerful lust.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":7543,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[387,707,1448],"class_list":["post-7536","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gardens","tag-cistus-nursery","tag-clematis-tibetana-var-vernayi","tag-schefflera-delavayi"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>It&#039;s not you, it&#039;s me... - Plant Lust<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Our love affair is over. It started out intense, as these things do \u2013 pure powerful lust. 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